Encouragement Works

All my life, I have known that encouragement works better than belittlement. Looking like you are irritated, annoyed, frustrated makes the other person feel bad. They internalize that feeling and then they fail to perform. Instead, smile, be open minded, Read More …

Silent Night

My wish to everyone tonight is a silent night…no sirens, no whistles, no call to duty. Every year, our fire department drives through the neighborhood…Santa on the back of the rescue truck wishing everyone a very Merry Christmas. For years Read More …

Endless Thanks

There is a huge difference between a very sincerely spoken “it has been my pleasure” and the endless thanks that someone says after you say you’re welcome, followed by another “thank you” but said again in a different way… what Read More …

Greatest Generation

They say that greatest generation is made up of those that I associate with my grandparents. Those who were born early enough to have lived in the Great Depression era, and were (or faked being) old enough to enlist in Read More …

People Watching

Spending time in transit from one city to another and back again I tend to do a lot of people watching.  Not sure if this something that I should always do, because sometimes I see things that I kind of Read More …

Right Back At You

How proud you are when someone appreciates you? When they go out of their way to thank you for doing a good job? When someone tells you that they appreciate what you have done? All of this happens and at Read More …

Having To Change

Ever been there? Sitting in the restaurant and deciding what you are going to eat until you hear someone else pick…the same thing you wanted and then having to change what you eat. I just can’t help it. I cannot Read More …