Watch With Me
Always say yes when someone says “do you want to watch with me? Something they like to watch. A favorite show, game or movie. Even if it’s outside of your genre. You might even enjoy it. Then, talk about it Read More …
Tag: decide
Not Lost
If you are exactly where you want to be, and where you decided to go, you are not lost. You may need to regroup sometimes and backtrack, but doing so is totally up to you. You don’t even have to Read More …
Someone Will
If you won’t, maybe someone will… plan. step up. do the work you don’t like to do/are not good at doing. ask for help. be there. stop. Of course, you cannot plan for the… maybe? what if? possible? scenario or Read More …
Today or Tomorrow
Perhaps today or tomorrow we will know. The day after that? Or, maybe next week? Perhaps next month? Certainly not next year… If you are not committed to making a decision, it is just this thing that is out there, Read More …
Contradictions in Messaging
The problem is that there are always contradictions in messaging… I love you, but I don’t like you. You want to be in a populated area, but you don’t want to be around people. I want to do something different, Read More …
Unclear On Next Steps
Sometimes, people are unclear on next steps and while they think they know what they want to do, they want some advice. What should I do? Is this normal? What would you do? Is this right? What comes next? Is Read More …
Start With Research
When making big decisions, sometimes we just throw caution to the wind. (Like booking a trip to Europe with just 30 days before you depart.) Other times, we take referrals and advice. It is usually best however, to start with Read More …
Don’t Look Back
It’s getting to that time of year, of graduations and celebrations and moving on… Of course, you should always be aware of where you started and your surroundings. Be safe. Be practical. Be respectful… but don’t look back. You can’t Read More …
Cold Feet
Sometimes, not very often, I have cold feet. I debate. I ponder. I hesitate. Then, I do more research before I decide yes or no to do something, join a group, make a plan…take action. It is completely okay to Read More …
Find Your Fit
The message today, touring schools was that you need to find your fit…and parents should be helping their children. I will accept that, but it isn’t as easy as you’d think. How do you fit in if you don’t know Read More …