When you start the count down, be ready for the end.

You can’t restart.

Especially if you have a complete and definitive ultimatum.

Unless, you have built-in fail safes.

Like an emergency stop button.

Or, maybe a strong emotional connection and inherent trust that will bring the process to an end, or a pause, depending on what you want to have happen.

What is your goal from the end result? Do you know what you really want?

Maybe, or maybe not. But, perhaps, until you know, you might not want to start the count down.

~ Dawn aka Hat Girl