Three Options
When you look into the choices, there are typically three options. Then, from there you have to choose. No decision is a choice (so that is four.) Add in some sub choices and then…voila! you have more. For example: Option Read More …
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Give In
Sometimes you just have to give in… To someone else To the temptation To the vice That said you don’t want it to be without reason. You have to be able to look yourself in the eye and know it Read More …
Listen First
We should always, always listen first. Learn as much as you can before you share your answers and advice. What have they already tried? Or what did they think would work? Maybe they want an opinion on alternative options. If Read More …
In The Middle
When you are in the middle, you have options. You can agree with either side, or pick your own, depending on… your mood, the conditions, who the neighbors are, what has happened recently (or even last year), the current options, Read More …
Something New
You can try something new, as simple as a different dinner than normal a weekend doing what they want to do a book you would not have read a movie someone else chooses a tour you would not normally go Read More …
Let’s Communicate
Let’s communicate – we can find a way. I know we can’t just “stop by” and visit anymore…or can we? No one answers their phone anymore…or, do they? Send an e-mail, maybe that will work…except they say that they don’t Read More …
Proactively Adjust
You can proactively adjust… your schedule. your mindset. your plan. your expectations. your communications (what will happen next.) your life. Pick a time. Pick a cause. Pick an option. Pick a reason. Pick a story. Pick your life. Then, proactively Read More …
Ask and Be Okay
When you are ready with questions you have to be able to both ask and be okay with the answer. Whether it is good news or bad. It isn’t easy to ask for an opinion. It is harder to listen Read More …
Always a Few Ways
There are always a few ways to get things done. The idea you had. The idea they have (the way they do it). The idea the programmer has. It isn’t a set way. There are often different ideas, based on Read More …
Options For All
It is not easy, but we can make options for all people that will work. vegetarian meat and potatoes (aka nothing green or vegetable like) non dairy gluten free paleo low-carb (is that still a thing?) the more cheese the Read More …