When you are in the middle, you have options. You can agree with either side, or pick your own, depending on… your mood, the conditions, who the neighbors are, what has happened recently (or even last year), the current options, Read More …
You can try something new, as simple as a different dinner than normal a weekend doing what they want to do a book you would not have read a movie someone else chooses a tour you would not normally go Read More …
Let’s communicate – we can find a way. I know we can’t just “stop by” and visit anymore…or can we? No one answers their phone anymore…or, do they? Send an e-mail, maybe that will work…except they say that they don’t Read More …
You can proactively adjust… your schedule. your mindset. your plan. your expectations. your communications (what will happen next.) your life. Pick a time. Pick a cause. Pick an option. Pick a reason. Pick a story. Pick your life. Then, proactively Read More …
When you are ready with questions you have to be able to both ask and be okay with the answer. Whether it is good news or bad. It isn’t easy to ask for an opinion. It is harder to listen Read More …
There are always a few ways to get things done. The idea you had. The idea they have (the way they do it). The idea the programmer has. It isn’t a set way. There are often different ideas, based on Read More …
It is not easy, but we can make options for all people that will work. vegetarian meat and potatoes (aka nothing green or vegetable like) non dairy gluten free paleo low-carb (is that still a thing?) the more cheese the Read More …
You can (and should) handle multi-platform options for your clients and customers. Why, oh why, is Chrome the only one that you will develop for your website? Take some time. Develop on the other two or three platforms that people Read More …
If you had a preference, which would you choose: infinite, options or an option? My kids and I play a little game where I give them a choice. The question posed is usually open ended. The question I pose is Read More …
There is always time to be weird people, especially during the full moon. The full moon gives you an excuse, an out, a reason to be unlike your normal self. Go out, join the crowd, be strange, be unpredictable, be Read More …