Apparently, you never forget your first earthquake. Where you were, what you were doing and how it felt. I am not sure how many readers have experienced one, but after today, I am guessing that number has gone up tremendously. Read More …
If you are not ready to pick something for any other reason, then pick a color that you like. This could be for a brand, a favorite flower, or a food. It could be for the outfit someone asks you Read More …
It is one perspective, or maybe another. Yours. Theirs. And the bystanders. But. Different. All valid. All accurate. All acceptable. People can each have one perspective of their life, an event, or a series of events and they will never, Read More …
When someone you trust, answers your question about a recommendation with the phrase “at your risk” you will believe them. Even if their intel may be older than 2021. Even if you saw recommendations online. Even if the Insta feed Read More …
Everybody’s perceptions vary…and today reminded of this in so many ways. A short or long wait…Actually taking 5 minutes vs. feeling like 5 hours. Reading what you think (want to think)…Text without nuance vs spoken word. Status of another…based on Read More …
It is disconcerting to leave some topics in open ended conversations while you have others that you want to end. History Education Science Fiction Reality Social norms Politics Religion The ones that are the most fun are the open ended Read More …
The best option for being sure that you can be consistent, is to just be yourself. If you try to “fake it till you make it”, you will probably get caught. If you really don’t like something (or someone) it Read More …
We can always second guess our actions and words… But we don’t always. Either way, it is okay. You cannot change what you did yesterday, but you can think back on it, learn and see how it changed you, and Read More …
Everything, and I mean everything is important. Period. Sure, some things are more important than others. But, that is not the end of the story. Others are worth a reminder. Mentioning again. Being a nudge. Being a nag; yes sometimes Read More …
When you are looking for a solution to a problem, don’t rule out crazy… Ideas – the ones that haven’t been tried before. Thoughts – the ones that seem to be so far out of the box, they aren’t even Read More …