Not Pretending

Halloween gives you an option to be something or someone entirely different…but you are not pretending if you truly enjoy the celebration. Even with everything you have to do to make it happen. Early mornings. Cold weather. Lots of layers. Read More …

It All Balances Out

In the end (a phrase I don’t particularly care for but works in the moment) it all balances out. In the life we live, there are times when we give and times when others give to us…it all balances out Read More …

Use the Words

It doesn’t always matter if you use the words you mean, the interpretation is the issue. People hear what they want. They think what they will think. Preconceived notions are a real thing. Experience bias. Time and place. Mood. All Read More …

Better Than…

When even something bad is better than… That said. Even if it is … all of that, it still isn’t good enough. And, don’t settle for anything less. It should always be better than…what you truly (believe) that you deserve. Read More …

Go Back and Catch Up

If things don’t make sense, or they are unclear – it is fine – not a problem. Just go back and catch up. We shouldn’t let the conversation continue if someone is lost, or can’t relate. It is important to Read More …

We Have A Plan

It is great when we have a plan. We know what we are doing, where we are going and when everything is supposed to happen. It is easier to predict, because it was figured out in advance. We can stay Read More …