As the kids go back to school, or off to college this fall how to they make virtual connections, when in-person connections are normally hard enough?

The normal recommendations still apply, it is just…well, harder.

• Talk to people.
• Pay attention.
• Listen to cues.
• Find similarities.
• Get online sooner.
• Open your mind.
• Find common ground.
• Participate often.
• Don’t let your introverted tendencies keep you from joining in.

That last one might have some of you saying, but hey, that’s not easy.

I know.

But, you are not alone. They are introverted, too.

So, it is uncomfortable for everyone…be uncomfortable together. Later, when you finally meet up in person, you can laugh about it.

• Stop multi-tasking.
• Share your camera.
• Look them in the eye.
• Really, really listen.
• Trust in you.
• You are amazing.
• Smile, it’s at least a start.
• Laugh when you want.
• Try not to worry.
• Don’t think too hard about it, just be your own amazing self.

When all you have are the virtual connections, being there and showing up are more important than ever.

~ Dawn aka Hat Girl