When you tell someone something, but they don’t listen to you… Do you say it?
“I told you so…”
It is really hard not to say this sometimes, but sometimes it doesn’t really need to be said. They know and you know. Isn’t that enough? Have some empathy, show you care. Try to help if you can make a difference after the fact.
The unspoken word is so powerful and some things just don’t need to be said.
~ Dawn aka Hat Girl
PS You can always talk about it years (and years) later. That is probably better.