If asked to make plans, be sure to take the lunch appointment – the one where you share a meal (not just work through.)

• Have more casual conversations.
• See how they interact with the wait staff.
• Get an idea of their preferences.
• Learn more about them – overall – personal life, family, hobbies.
• Share your insights.
• Be able to debate and have an open dialogue.
• Engage in new ways.

My recommendation is to never skip a meal, and to take the lunch – at your favorite spot or theirs – even better yet, find a new spot that neither of you know and you will both have the opportunity to try something new.

~ Dawn aka Hat Girl