Options Options

Totally open to the options. Options that give you flexibility, freedom, and the ability to flex in and out of the best case scenario. Learn more. Ask questions. Get involved. Make some initial decisions. Take care of the downside. Here Read More …

Back Up Plans

When you have back up plans, the things that fall through don’t really matter. I mean, sure, you would have rather gotten the first choice result, but if you know in advance, it is easier to accept. Known result. Acceptable Read More …

Use the Words

It doesn’t always matter if you use the words you mean, the interpretation is the issue. People hear what they want. They think what they will think. Preconceived notions are a real thing. Experience bias. Time and place. Mood. All Read More …

Better Than…

When even something bad is better than… That said. Even if it is … all of that, it still isn’t good enough. And, don’t settle for anything less. It should always be better than…what you truly (believe) that you deserve. Read More …

No Easy Answer

Sometimes, there is no easy answer. It is something that will take a long time, a lot of effort and to be brutally honest – many sacrifices. We all make them. The questions are: how big, how hard and how Read More …

Go Back and Catch Up

If things don’t make sense, or they are unclear – it is fine – not a problem. Just go back and catch up. We shouldn’t let the conversation continue if someone is lost, or can’t relate. It is important to Read More …