What is better for you, the impromptu or planned event?
The inspiration to connect and get together at the last minute versus the well thought out, decision based event crafted months and weeks in advance.
Either can be better. Though both very different.
One has little to no expectations.
One has at least one, but often a few people, holding their breath.
Today, the stress of looking forward to something that will happen in the future is more than most can take. Seize the moment, text a friend, get together – low expectations are (for now) often exceeded.
You may choose the impromptu or planned, and just let the breath go; shed the anxiety. It will it be everything you need it to be, for now.
~ Dawn aka Hat Girl