Now or Never
You can decide, is it now or never? Today is just a moment in time. Only you can decide, start now, or don’t… It isn’t an ultimatum. It doesn’t have to be now or never, it can be whenever you Read More …
Category: observations
Time Zone Math
It is not too late, even if it is later than planned. Sometimes, more than others I like to play a little game I call “Time Zone Math“. I like to see if I can get it right…Where are they? Read More …
Is It Really There
Do you just go for it? Or, do you think first: is it really there? What if it isn’t? How much do you trust? Just because your parents told you. Just because the GPS App indicated it was time to Read More …
Take The Moment
No matter how busy you are…take the moment. Read the e-mail Read the text Re-read the letter, thank you note or article Really think about the circumstance, to make sure the reaction you are about to take is appropriate for Read More …
Take the Advice
Will you take the advice? If you ask someone for their opinion, and they share it – does that mean more to you because you trust them? Did you ask them because they have more experience? Or, did you ask Read More …
Bring Someone Along
When you have doubts that the thing will be what you think it is…bring someone along for the ride. You will definitely have someone to talk to. You will be able to lament the end of season cliff-hanger. You will Read More …
As Normal
Be as normal and consistent as possible. Pick the usual. Go to the same spot. Stay on plan. Be the regular. Nothing unexpected. Flying under the radar. Nothing to suspect as being out of the ordinary. Yes, business as usual Read More …
Ask the Questions
Do you have anything else? People often say no and then they ask the questions… Why do they say no when: They need to know. They have a question. Or, a comment. Maybe… They don’t want the meeting to drag Read More …
Still There
You are still there, sitting there. Thinking. Write it out. Talk about it. Share what you believe. Ask questions. Find out what they think. Come together…discuss and debate. If you’re still there, hours later or even days and then years Read More …
Wrong Answer
No, that’s the wrong answer. Ever hear that? What if it was the wrong question? Misheard, misinterpreted, or mistakenly alluding to something else entirely. The right answer may be right for others, not just you or the current situation. The Read More …