When something is random and unpredictable, you have two choices. Go with the flow and adapt. Or… Decide that it is too much, opt out and say no. The problem is (however) that life is generally random and unpredictable. Which Read More …
Sometimes it is a push to complete a task you don’t want to do. Delay. Procrastinate. Put it on the list. Ignore it. Ask for help. Still don’t want to do it. Be the delay fish you know you can Read More …
Even after several prior visits, they are still better than average. This is so encouraging. Inspiring even. They are holding up their reputation from past experiences. Not easy to do. Typically over time, they become lax and drop the ball. Read More …
If you are interested in another version or interpretation, try reading the mash up edition. While this is fan fiction, those authors have a unique way of taking something that was already quite wonderful and making them somehow even better. Read More …
As a leader, a coach, or a parent you must teach them and resist the impulse to… do it for them. You have to tell them as much as you can, even show them what that means and how to Read More …
Okay, you made it through that… moment in time. goal you set for yourself. birthday you had been dreading (I hear that is a thing). job interview. project and met the deadlines. budget adjustment and still accomplished what you set Read More …
It’s a mindset…knowing you are ready to figure it out and solve the problem you are already nearly there. Ask the right questions. Do the research. Find the experts. Write a better prompt. One by one tick off each possible Read More …
Through persistence and follow up we get what we need, even if it is not what we want. Call. Text. E-mail. Show up. Repeat. Change up what you say. Explain yourself. Share stories. Get to know them. Through the right Read More …
You can call ahead, text before you head out or…just show up. Oh, hello! Happy. Elated Surprised. Excited. Yay. Thrilled. All of those are the good reactions. If there are any other reactions, you don’t know them well enough. And… Read More …
Hmmm…you got all that? (We are skeptical.) You sure you don’t want to write it down or take notes? Nah, I’m good. If you know you have a good memory you don’t have to write everything down. Pretty impressive. And, Read More …